Friday, February 25, 2011

My Birthing Story

On Thursday, February 17th at 3:45 in the morning I officially began the exciting process of labor. I knew that I had lots of time, my contractions were about twenty minutes apart, and fairly mild. I let Christian sleep, and allowed myself to really focus on what this day was going to hold for us.

As the morning moved along, my contractions did the same. The distance in time between each one started to diminish and the overwhelming joy that today was going to be the day grew with each minute.

Luckily, I was already scheduled for an baby check-up appointment with my midwife at 2:45. I patiently waited till it was time to go, but I will admit I was extremely curious as to how far along I was dilated. Turns out that I was 4 cm, almost 5, and by this time of day my contractions were averaging 5 minutes apart. I went home, and was met at my house by my in-laws, John and Kathy, and my Doula Laura. We sat in the family room chit-chatting for a few hours, and then at about 5, 5:30 I made the call letting everyone know, "It's time to head to the head to the hospital."

Once we reached the birthing wing at the hospital, we were met by one of my midwives, and she pulled some strings to insure that I was given the corner room with the large jacuzzi tub. At this point I was now 6 cm and having contractions every 4 minutes. The birthing room felt more like a resort room on some tropical island. We were so lucky to get this room. It was great!
I used the birthing ball to help relax and move things along.
When the contractions really started pigging-backing each other, (they call this part of labor transition, and it happens right before the big "pushing" part) I moved into the tub. The warm water really worked wonders at soothing and again relaxing my body in between contractions.
From 6 o'clock to 10 o'clock I dilated a centimeter an hour, and by 10:00 I was ready to have a baby. At exactly 11:30 p.m. Grace Irene was born, and looked absolutely perfect!! She weighed 8 pounds 2 ounces, was 19.5 inches long, and honestly was the most gorgeous baby I've ever seen. (Although I'm sure I'm extremely biased)
Her first hair shampoo. She loves being pampered!

Such a sweet sleepy baby! So cute!
From day one she adored her father! Its unbelievable, but when she gets a little fussy, Christian picks her up and within two seconds she's perfectly content. Daddy's little girl!
Look at the face! She was so excited to head home from the hospital!
Thanks Aunt Emily and Uncle Luke for her going-home outfit. The sweater was perfect as it was extremely cold and kept her nice and toasty warm.
Grandma Kaufman made Grace her baby blanket that she came home from the hospital in. So soft and warm!
We're so thrilled that she's finally here, and every day has become such a joy. She's our little miracle, and I love that we are now a true family!

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Birds of a feather

This winter season we've had several neighborhood visitors that are very large, and a little bit on the creepy side. I'm talking about vultures! They've been hanging around the houses and trees and really seem to enjoy the heat that is piped up through the chimneys as they perch their giant feathered body across the roof tops.While sitting in my family room, I can always tell when a giant vulture is resting on the top of the chimney because well, they're not exactly graceful birds, and I hear them trying to balance themselves on the chimney cap. (Below you can see one vulture sitting next to the cap, and the feathers of another vulture who is actually sitting on the cap to the chimney.)Here's a vulture just hanging out in the back yard. I'm telling you, these birds are impressively big!
Like a scary gang, here are five vultures just hanging out on the ridge pole of the neighbor's house directly across the street. I wouldn't want to mess with this posse.See what I mean. Creepy!
This vulture is sitting on the chimney cap, and warming his feathers. I bet he was nice a toasty up there!Oh no! I've been spotted! (I still think they're creepy!) RUN AWAY!!! AHHHH!

Monday, January 3, 2011

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Moment of Warmth

This is for all those out there who are burred in snow at the moment, or chilled to the bone from the blustery winter air... Please snuggle up close to our fireplace, which we lit for the first time, and completely enjoyed warming our hands and hearts by.
It also makes wonderful roasted marshmallows. hee hee
Happy winter everyone!

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Before & Afters

It's been forever since I've blogged, and I apologize to those who have been waiting to read the latest posting. To make up for my absence, this will be one doosy of an entry.

Over a year ago I shared the wondrous news that Christian and I closed on our first house together, followed by explaining how much work we had ahead of us to make this house our home. We still have a few projects that we're working on, (mainly the kitchen) but I thought I would show the world how far we've come in such a relatively short period of time. So please enjoy these before, during, and after photos of several rooms in our home.

The foyer & stairway:
The living room:
Although it may not look like we changed much in the living room, we did repaint everything, fix cracked walls, replaced built in doors, and of course sanded and stained the floor.
The dining room:The down stairs bathroom:The soon-to-be nursery:The family room:The guest bedroom:And the biggest mess, the upstairs bathroom:
We discovered an original staircase hidden under the bathtub. It was amazing to look at the the steps, feel the warn-out-curve in the wood, and just imagine the Canfield family (Matthias Canfield built the house in 1825) walking up and down those steps.

I refrained from posting photos of the "library", as it still has many empty shelves and looks rather awkward, as well as my craft room isn't really much to look at, plus I'm working on something for the holiday season for my family here in Jersey, so I didn't want to give it away, oh and our master bedroom is lovely, but I've posted photos of it many times before. The only difference is we have our bedroom furniture in it now, which makes me feel all grown up.

I'm very proud of how the house has turned out. There are still things left to do, and I'm sure there will always be things left to do, but like I said, it now feels like our home.

Monday, October 4, 2010

Baby Kaufman update!

One week ago Christian and I had our 20 week check up and we were able to insure that our growing little jelly bean is healthy as can be. The baby measured in around 10 inches, about the length of a banana, and was around 12 oz. I'm so excited that I can now start talking about our baby in pounds. Our baby weighs a pound!! Look how cute LG (Short for Logan/Grace) is. LG's arms were above his/her head. You can see the hands by the forehead. And isn't that the most adorable nose you've ever seen?!? I can't wait to see it in person and give it an Eskimo kiss... well, I can wait till Feb. hee hee. Also, is it me, or does it look like LG is smiling for the photo-op? Everything is exactly where it's suppose to be, ten fingers and ten toes. (Cooley toes for certain. I was really pulling for Kaufman toes. Those Kaufman boys could model their feet.) A beautiful healthy heart, and a gorgeous brain, which I can already tell will rival Einstein's. hee hee As for the many out there who are requesting us to tell them whether it's a boy or girl, sorry to disappoint, but Christian and I made it very clear that we did not wish to know the sex, and therefore we still have a guessing game going on. I think it's more fun this way, we get to discuss two possible futures, rather than just one.
LG is very active, I feel movement all the time, and Christian felt a little nudge earlier in the week. It was LG's way of letting his/her Daddy feel the love that we're already building as a family. Its always a treat to sneak a peak at our child, and catch a glimpse of this beautiful baby. This was our last ultrasound, by choice, for the duration of the pregnancy. So the next photos we see of LG will be in color, and will be of the most exciting day of our life!


Sunday, September 12, 2010

Our Alaskan Adventure

Note: I took over 600 photos, so it's a bit of a long blog entry, and obviously not all photos made the cut. But regardless please enjoy the Alaska Blog!
Our summer vacation to Alaska was honestly one of the most breathtaking, and relaxing vacations we have ever taken. This was our first cruise, and I think it's safe to say that Christian and I are cruise people. It was tons of fun! There was always something to do on the ship, and if we so chose there was always time to mellow out.

We flew into Seattle, and met up with the boat in the harbor. From the deck we had a clear view of the city center, the public market and fisherman's warf, and of course their two stadiums, home of the Seahawks and Mariners. After spending a day at sea, our first stop was the gateway to Alaska, Ketchikan. Everything was within walking distance from the boat. This town boasts one of the largest collections of totem poles, and believe me they were every where you looked!
Salmon is among one of the wonderful fresh exports of Alaska. Arriving so late in the summer season their urge to spawn had just about warn off, and they're life cycle was almost complete. There were still thousands of salmon pushing their bodies to the limit as they struggled up stream, and I was lucky enough to catch one mid-flight!Christian and I thought it would be fun to catch a lumberjack show while in port. It was really entertaining. Four lumberjacks, one of which was from New Jersey of all places (The big guy in gray) competed against each other in various contests. High energy, loud, and lots of fun.The next port was Alaska's capitol, Juneau. After the boat docked, Christian and I boarded a bus that drove us about twenty minutes away from town to meet up with our activities coordinator for the day. We were going sea kayaking next to the Mendenhall Glacier.
I brought along my tiny point-and-shoot camera for this part just in case we capsized, I didn't want to loose all my photos from the trip, so the quality isn't quite as clear as the other photos. But if you look closely (Click the collage to zoom in) dead center of the trees below is a mature bald eagle watching us from her perch. I think we kayaked at least two miles maybe more and for close to two hours. We saw fish, mature and juvenile bald eagles, and harbor seals, not to mention the glacier. Our host for the afternoon pointed us in the direction of King's Crab Shack for lunch, and were we ever happy that she did! Christian and I feasted on crab bisque, crab cakes, and of course no visit to Alaska would be complete without cracking your way through a giant two foot long King Crab Leg! Soooo yummy!The following day our cruise ship skillfully navigated it's way through the Tracy Arm Fjord. Everyone on the boat woke up especially early to watch enormous mountains cruise by at what seemed to be an unbelievable close distance. Christian and I were on the upper decks by 6:30 in the morning. We both were chilled, but extremely refreshed and awestruck by what we saw.
As the channel seemed to become more and more narrow loose floating "baby" glaciers (About the size of semi-trucks) began to float by us. We sailed past these translucent blue icebergs which were silhouetted against the most dramatic backdrop of waterfall-laced rock walls ascending thousands of feet into the sky. The ship then slowly rounded a corner of mountains and suddenly appearing before us was a glacier which was miles thick. (If you see in the collage below, the boat I took a photo of was actually National Geographic taking their own photos and studying the glacier. Very cool!)
Our last port in Alaska was a tiny town called Skagway. Here's where Christian and I had the most fun. We boarded the White Pass Yukon Railway which took us up the mountainside just to drop us off in an Alaskan rain forest. We met up with our guides, Waldo from Washington and Georgia from Georgia, and went for a five mile hike in the Alaskan wilderness.Here's Waldo. Christian and I thought he was an awesome guide. (Plus he looks like the twin of my best friend's husband... don't you think so Lolo?)There were only seven of us for this excursion, and apparently we were all really good hikers, so Waldo pumped up the pace a bit to insure that we could reach a lookout point a mile further than they normally go. The burning quads were so worth it once we reached the clearing. (Don't forget I was 15 weeks pregnant doing this. I should get a pat on the back, thank you very much. hee hee)After leaving Alaska, the seas were slightly rough. (Honestly, it wasn't that bad. But don't forget this is coming from a woman who just spent four months with morning sickness, so I can handle just about any little motion sickness now. *Wink*) Christian and I enjoyed the soothing sway of the boat as it lulled us to sleep like little babies while we took our naps from the indoor observation deck.
While we didn't see as much wildlife as we had hoped, it was still fun to compare ourselves to the cute, man-made, yet life-size stuffed wildlife statues that were around the towns.
Christian and I did spot a few whales from the cruise ship. Nothing spectacular, like breaching or anything, but we did enjoy a gasp or two as we spotted the spray from the spouts off in the distance. Below is Christian next to an Orca skull.
Yes, you guessed it! That's a whale's vertebra Christian is adjusting. Just imagine how large whales truly are. That's just one bone out a spine that can reach more than 87 feet in length!! Amazing!Our last port was Victoria Island, in Canada. I have actually been here before. My high school band every other year makes a trip up to march in the Victoria Day parade. It was a short stop as we docked just before 7 o'clock in the evening, and left port at midnight, but it was fun to walk around the Canadian streets and listen to all the street performers play and entertain the visiting tourists.
Finally back in Seattle, Christian and I had several hours before we needed to be at the airport for our flight back to the East Coast, so I thought it would be fun to take him to Seattle's public market. I hadn't been there in the years, and there is always something fun to see, smell, and eat.One of the fun features at the public market or the fish mongers. When you order a fish, rather than just walking the fish up to the scale, they throw the fish over the counter to one another and catch it as if it wasn't a cold, slippery fish. That's a talent to put on your resume!And of course, no visit to Seattle would be complete without allowing Christian to try a freshly brewed cup of Joe. He took one sip and instantly said it was one of the best cups of coffee he'd ever had. Me, I thoroughly enjoyed my hot apple cider.A well deserved vacation, that went off without a hitch. One for the record books, and one that I'm sure in the future we will revisit. As for the rest of the population out there that says the every popular line, "I've always wanted to go to Alaska." GO! It's beauty is stunning, the people are friendly, and the food is delish. I give this year's vacation a triple A+!